Share Everyone says follow your passion and all kinds of wonderful will follow. But what do you do when you don’t know what your passion is? How do you begin to know yourself better than you do right now? The first difficulty is how you listen to yourself. We have something called intuition. It is a very quiet voice and we usually ignore it because we don’t hear it. Part of it is the way it is communicated. It is often rapid and doesn’t contain...

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Self-esteem or confidence is self-knowledge. How much you know about yourself. Looking at self-esteem, if you feel like you are not enough raises two questions. Have you really taken a good inventory of who you are and what you can do and where do you think you are lacking? How you take Inventory Some people start with a zero sum base. They compare themselves to other people and come up with the idea I am less then. If someone else is...

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The days have shortened and the nights have lengthened. I am about to hibernate with books and net flicks. The colder weather and slower pace turn my attention inwards and I reflect on the year that has passed and the year to come. And you know what I can’t get off the couch!   I’m exhausted!! I’m not crushing it! I’m not killing it. My super powers just hit Kryptonite.   I am in a tail spin!!!   Sound about right? Okay don’t panic you...

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How do I put up with these people how can I approach the people I fear? You first need to go inside yourself and find out the answers to these questions. Where does the dislike come from? What are you basing it on? Is this a gut reaction or have you put some thought into it. I’m going to make some suggestions on how to start liking more people and we are going to take a look at what influences you to dislike them in the first place. Let’s start...

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Terror’s that stop you- You are scared that people will reject you if they know how you really feel and who you really. You are so scared of rejection and ending up alone that you would rather swallow your feelings and put up with some abuse than take the chance of making anyone mad at you You are afraid of angry feelings or conflicts with people. You may believe that people should not fight or more to the point you should not fight. You are a...

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There are two situations where this happens. Sometimes you have certain responsibilities for instance a job where you don’t have a choice. And other times it is when you feel pressured to say yes when you really mean no. with family or friends If it happens often enough you can build up resentments and feel as if you are taken advantage of and unappreciated It feels like there is no choice but there is. It feels as if you are powerless which...

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