You no longer (or never did) really know what you want

You no longer (or never did) really know what you want

We are going to go over. WHY this has happened, WHY NOW, and WHAT MIGHT HELP.   You have relentlessly pushed and pushed and pushed yourself for 12 or 13 years to gain a prestigious career and here you are….realizing there’s no end in sight. In today’s world it feels like you have to push and push and push yourself for 6 or 10 more years before you can relax.  You feel burned out and worn out and can’t get the motivation up to...

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Why are you afraid of being afraid?

Why are you afraid of being afraid?

The other day I was to talking to a client who was fighting with feeling anxious. And what she noticed is the more she fought it the more thoughts came to her head as to why she should be afraid, very afraid. And soon she was in a mad whirling dervish of what could, might, maybe, could happen. When clients come into therapy they often have a long grocery list of emotions they do not want to have: sadness, anger, fear, loneliness, insecurity and...

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The Definition of Magic is Opportunity

The Definition of Magic is Opportunity

What do you do when you are too depressed or anxious to change what is happening in your life? You see other people accomplishing things and you are stuck in the same place. Many people would like to believe that if I close my eyes and wish real hard it will come true. And in defense of these actions they call it a positive attitude. And when they really don’t want to get off the coach they defend themselves by saying “don’t you believe in...

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Are you Waiting for things to get Better?

Are you Waiting for things to get Better?

Are you Waiting for things to get Better?  Be honest for a moment, when you think of the good things you are trying to create and manifest in your life right now, is there anything you’re “waiting” for? Perhaps you’re waiting until you get more clarity on your purpose before you start the business you’ve wanted to start. Maybe you already have a business and you’re “waiting” for clients to come...

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Boundary Bashers

Boundary Bashers

We all have them in our lives sometimes we call them friends, BFF, Mom or my all-time favorite supervisor. We all know when we have been bashed. It is a sinking angry, annoyed feeling that you get in the pit of your stomach. I have heard some clients say it feels like having a welcome mat on my back that says step on me. Sometimes it feels like someone just sucked the life out of you. Or you get angry but somehow that feels helpless to. It...

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Short term Psychotherapy – Achieve your goals by the summer

Short term Psychotherapy – Achieve your goals by the summer

                I have four openings left before my private practice is filled and I want to work with a very specific type of client. The coaching would last for 12 weeks just through the spring. You are someone who has specific goals that you want to accomplish by the end of that 12 week period. During these 12 weeks you will create a vision, find the steps to get there and the things that stop you then...

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